Focus Verse: Proverbs 16:18 – “Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.”

Purpose: To expose pride as sin no matter the context, challenge cultural rebranding of it, and equip believers to speak truth with grace.

I. Pre-Intro

“I have two jobs as your pastor: to convict and to equip. Today’s message is not a detour from our Bible character study—it’s a moment of discernment. We are addressing something pressing, because the world is preaching a message this month that contradicts the gospel. And I won’t let it go unchallenged.”

II. Introduction – What’s in a Word?

  • Culture celebrates June as Pride Month.
  • But before we debate what kind of pride, we need to ask what God says about pride itself.
  • Pride is not a personality trait—it’s a spiritual condition.

III. What Scripture Says About Pride

A. Frequency and Usage

  • 49 mentions of “pride” in the KJV.
  • 0 times used positively.
  • Alternate terms in modern translations: arrogance, haughtiness, conceit, self-exaltation, high-mindedness.

B. God’s View of Pride

  • Proverbs 16:18 – “Pride goeth before destruction…”
  • James 4:6 – “God resisteth the proud…”
  • 1 John 2:16 – “The pride of life is not of the Father…”
  • Isaiah 2:11 – “The haughtiness of men shall be bowed down…”

IV. The Cultural Rebranding of Sin

  • Isaiah 5:20 – “Woe to those who call evil good…”
  • Sin is now marketed as virtue. Examples:
    • Sexual sin → “Love is love”
    • Abortion → “Women’s rights”
    • Greed → “Ambition”
    • Porn → “Adult entertainment”
    • Pride → “Empowerment,” “Identity,” “Authenticity”
  • Romans 1:32 – “They not only do them, but give approval…”

V. Counterfeit Celebrations: “Straight Pride” and “Veteran Pride”

  • The issue isn’t who’s proud—it’s that pride itself is sin.
  • Even moral causes don’t need pride. They need:
    • Honor
    • Humility
    • Gratitude
    • Purpose
  • Luke 14:11 – “Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled…”

VI. The Right Response: Speak Truth in Love

  • Ephesians 4:15 – “Speak the truth in love…”
  • 2 Timothy 2:25 – “In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves…”
  • John 15:18–19 – “If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me…”

Truth without love is harsh. Love without truth is hollow.
We need both.

VII. Closing Appeal – Truth Never Needs a Rebrand

  • We don’t need pride to define us.
  • We don’t create “Christian versions” of worldly lies.
  • God calls us to be humble disciples, not prideful Christians.
  • The gospel never asks you to celebrate yourself—it asks you to surrender yourself.

VIII. Discussion Questions

  1. How does the Bible define pride vs. the world’s version?
  2. Why is pride at the root of so many sins?
  3. Can we be confident in truth without being prideful?
  4. How should we approach conversations about Pride Month?
  5. Why is it dangerous to make “Christian versions” of worldly pride?
  6. How do we stand firm without being harsh?

Full List of Verses Where “Pride” Appears (KJV)

  1. Leviticus 26:19
  2. 1 Samuel 17:28
  3. 2 Chronicles 32:26
  4. Job 33:17
  5. Job 35:12
  6. Psalm 10:2
  7. Psalm 10:4
  8. Psalm 31:18
  9. Psalm 59:12
  10. Psalm 73:6
  11. Proverbs 8:13
  12. Proverbs 11:2
  13. Proverbs 13:10
  14. Proverbs 14:3
  15. Proverbs 16:18
  16. Proverbs 29:23
  17. Isaiah 9:9
  18. Isaiah 13:11
  19. Isaiah 16:6
  20. Jeremiah 13:9
  21. Jeremiah 13:17
  22. Jeremiah 48:29
  23. Jeremiah 49:16
  24. Ezekiel 7:10
  25. Ezekiel 16:49
  26. Ezekiel 24:21
  27. Ezekiel 30:6
  28. Daniel 4:37
  29. Hosea 5:5
  30. Hosea 7:10
  31. Obadiah 1:3
  32. Obadiah 1:12
  33. Zephaniah 2:10
  34. Zechariah 9:6
  35. Zechariah 10:11
  36. Mark 7:22
  37. Romans 1:30
  38. Romans 11:20
  39. 1 Corinthians 4:6
  40. 1 Corinthians 5:2
  41. 2 Corinthians 5:12
  42. 1 Timothy 3:6
  43. 1 Timothy 6:4
  44. 2 Timothy 3:2
  45. Titus 1:7
  46. James 4:6
  47. 1 Peter 5:5
  48. 1 John 2:16
  49. Revelation 18:7

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